Rules 

God has provided the Structure.

Well-intentioned men and women provide the How To.

Focus on the structure, Jesus is the way.

Mark 9:7–8 (ESV) And a cloud overshadowed them, and a voice came out of the cloud, “This is my beloved Son; listen to him.” [8] And suddenly, looking around, they no longer saw anyone with them but Jesus only. 

John 14:6 (ESV) Jesus said unto him, “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. . .”